Decide what’s true for you, really true for you on your definition of level.
When you do that, then you’ll be in alignment with yourself
And you will experience your life that way
And give everything that happens in your life,a positive meaning if you want to experience a positive effect
对于生命中发生的每件事,如果你想体验正面的影响,那请赋予它们正面的意义
If you give things negative meaning, the only effect you can get is a negative one.
而如果你赋予它们负面的意义,那你也只会受到负面的影响
Because everything is neutral
And only the meaning you give, it determines the outcome and the effect that you experience.
只有你赋予的意义,才会决定你经验到的结果,以及对你的影响
I don’t mean the way it looks.
I mean the way it is experienced by you
Because the idea and the proof of change is not that the outer world has changed.
因为改变,以及改变的证明,不是看外在世界是否改变了
It’s that you respond differently to it, even if it looks the same
That’s the proof of change.
When you truly have changed,
then the outer reflection can change,
But not because it has to,
because you wouldn’t care whether it changed or not
if you were truly generating your own positive state.
Because it wouldn’t matter what would happen
You would know that no matter what happens
You will only get a positive effect in your life regardless of what anyone else is getting out of it.
你的生活,都只会受到积极正面的影响,而不论其他人从中得到什么
By acting as that positive example to others
they can also choose to only experience positive effects in their life should they so desire to
他们也可以在生活中,只经历到积极正面的结果,如果他们有这样的渴望的话