I’ve been working… I feel very bad because I work for my father
对于我的工作，我感觉很不好，因为我是为我父亲工作的
And I feel like, you know, I didn’t get like a independent job.
He’s been supporting me to create a website, a social media
Yes? Does that excites you?
It does really excite me. But there’s something about it that is just been driving me crazy.
这的确令我兴奋，但这份工作的一些事情，把我搞得焦头烂额（快疯了）
I just feel guilty about succeeding
You feel guilty about what?
About the possibility of succeeding
If at first you don’t succeed, Redefine success
如果一开始你没有成功，那就重新给“成功”下定义吧！
To be that definition that works for you.
No one else will have the same definition of success.
I guess I’m scare of failing, it’s one or the other.
Not being yourself, that’s it.
Do you really have to be yourself a hundred percent of the time before you’re successful at being yourself ?
我是不是每时每刻都要做我自己，我才是真正的做自己？
But here is the paradoxical irony
When you’re okay with not being your true self a hundred percent of the time, you are being your true self a hundred percent of the time
但如果你对于自己，不是每时每刻都是“做自己”感到OK，那你就是每时每刻都在“做自己”。
Because you know you’re going through a process
And it’s okay to go through the process
And it’s okay to know you’re not always at your best. And that’s okay.
你也知道，自己并没有时刻都做到“最好的自己”，而这，你也觉得OK
It’s when you start keeping judgment and guilt upon yourself, that you’re going in the other direction.
当你不断给自己差评，不断感到愧疚，你就转身，向失败走去了。
It’s not because you’re not always doing exactly the thing you would like to do,
成功，不是取决于你是不是每时每刻，都在做你喜欢的事
It’s because of your attitude toward that experience that determines whether you’re successful or not.
而是你对于每个体验、每个经历的态度，决定了你是否成功
So if you’re all right with sometimes going.
Oh well, you know, I took a left turn here, it’s not what I intended,
But all right, I learn something from it.
I’m not always one hundred percent of my best,
Because I know that it is my intention to be,
And therefore by acknowledging that it’s okay to have gone down that path
Even if it wasn’t what I preferred.
I know that, overall, I’m okay
And I have a self-correcting self guiding system
That will always course correct and bring me back to where I prefer to be.
Not because you achieve a goal,
Not because something comes to fruition in the way you thought it would
Success is being okay with yourself at every moment,
Even when you’re not okay with yourself ,That’s okay.
If you keep judgment and guilt upon yourself that’s what stops you from being a success,
但如果你不断自我评判、自责，那你是把自己挡在成功大门之外。
Because many many people in your reality who you would look at it go：
Oh, that’s a very, very successful person
Is they don’t give up. They don’t get down on themselves
For suddenly maybe being out of alignment with who they prefer to be. They learn from it.
They get back into alignment and say
Because the process of your entire life. The process is the point. The journey is the destination
因为，你们人生的整个过程，这个过程，才是你人生的目的。你的人生旅途，就是你的目的地！
You’re not trying to get anywhere. all you’re doing is attempting to be more of yourself to the best of your ability
你不是想去某个地方，你做的一切，都为了发挥自己最大能力，成为更宏伟的自己
And if you’re doing your best, that’s all you need to do,
Do you feel a little bit more relaxed about yourself.
Then that is the measure of success
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